Topic: No Sex Before Marriage

This little message is a message you may not want to hear. This message may hurt you. However, like a flu shot, sometimes you must take a little sting to help you avoid things in the future that can hurt you. Here is the message: The must be no sex before marriage. If I were your pastor, I would tell you that I will be there for you whether you have a baby in or out of wedlock. I am not your judge, for only God can judge fairly and His commandment for me as a pastor is to accept you and love you no matter what you do. As a pastor, I am just a caretaker of souls. There is enormous pressure today to have sex before marriage. Society says that sex before marriage is OK, and society says this behavior is not wrong. Society is wrong. Premarital sex is a sin. Premarital sex is wrong. If the man or boy truly cares for and respects the woman or girl, the man or boy can be self-controlled and be self-disciplined and control his passion. The greatest compliment a man can pay a woman is to ask her to marry him. That compliment is tainted if the man has used the woman for his own pleasure or if the woman has used the man for her own pleasure. If the girl or woman truly cares for and respects the man or boy, then the girl or woman will not put herself in a position of tempting the man or boy and will help him understand the consequences of pregnancy. If neither the man or woman, boy or girl cannot commit to abstain from sex until after marriage, then neither of them will be able to abstain from other behaviors that can destroy the marriage. Research has shown that couples who abstain from sex before marriage have a lower divorce rate. In addition, contraceptives do not always work, but even if contraceptives did work all the time, the harm is done to the relationship in committing the sin. If the girl or woman gets pregnant, there is no pain in the back, no foot swelling, and no pain in childbirth for the boy or man. If the girl or woman gets pregnant, then boy or man who does not marry the girl or woman must live with the fact he is a father and has failed as a father the rest of his life.

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These words were posted at one of Shepherd's Care Ministries Sites called Wisdom Moment. This site is located at:
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